A red light means stop, but it doesn’t actually stop us. We stop when we see a red light because we accept the meaning and mistake it for the reality. But the reality is that when we see a red light we could just as easily turn left or right and carry on going.
If we want to achieve something, and someone tells us ‘No’, we can either accept the red light, or we can choose to take a different direction and still work towards what we wanted to achieve.
We don’t have to accept No as an answer.